quiting rc for a lil bit...maybe longer
 

Hey all
I'm quitting RC for a little bit but if it works out with me and the girl I love during homecoming i might not be able to afford RC anymore

You're a soldier right?

I wish you nothing but the best!

Perhaps we meet again someday on this board!

are you selling your stuff?

LOL!

First things what come to peoples minds on these forums... :D

Best wishes Shadow.

So long shadow. I hope at least come back to visit. Hope you luck on your journey.

What about the rc stuff? :D

lol I'm no soldier
I'm 17 years old In high school Junior(11th)
homecoming is a dance at school
dunno if I'm gonna sell my stuff or not
but ill still be around forums
hopefulyy this works out with me and her
i have a crush on her ever since freshman year(9th)

Girls screw up everything. Just remember that it'll be less expensive to keep your RC. :-)

well Im thinkin bout my future life
shes that kind of girl that like romance
and I think shes one of a kind
shes nice
shes kind
shes smart
she always like to help the community
she thinks first kiss means everything
no sex till marriage
she like to dance (salsa mostly)
shes beautiful, pretty, cute, and sexy
shes like the perfect woman in my perspective

cuz girls now only like you for your money

I feel like I need to step in here. Please do not take offense, it's not meant to be offensive. Just some sage advice. Most of us older guys have been there. DO NOT BE A WUSSY. Ladies like men that are men. Confidance, cocky, funny works. Good dancing trumps ugly every time. Have a plan make decisions and be yourself. Be a challenge. If you are into R/C now DO NOT STOP FOR YOUR GIRL. You might as well hand her a dog colar and a leash if thats what you have in mind. On Saturday when she ask what are you doing? Tell her you are going to the track. (pause) She 'll be bummed. Do not "ask" her to come with you. Just say "You should come with me!" If you pack a lunch bring enough for her. Bottom line she 'll be happy to just be with you. If not she ain't worth the aggrevation. There are alot a wealthy men that can't get the girl becouse they are wusses. Do not feel like a date has to involve spending tons of money. Yea, yea, they all like to be wined and dined but then again so do I! Try turning the table a bit. Keep it confidant, cocky and funny.

you said no sex till marriage:( nooo i would dump her :P lol no im j/k.

Yeah, they all say that no sex until marriage thing. Thats cause every other dweeb out there has one thing on his mind " Getting his willy wet". Change the attitude up a bit. Be a challenge, She'll freak when you quit trying to get in the pants. Matter of fact, she 'll be lucky if she gets the opportunity. Have fun, and for God's sake stop calling four times a day. :cool:


Jeez Is this the right forum! :L:

I think papa has a good point. Don't you give up everything and she give up nothing. I hope you the best. I really hope it works out. I got lucky. I ask my wife where she wants to go out to. she tells me taco bell. Now that is a keeper. :D

lol thnx papa
lets jus say im no throphy man
im one of those guys who doesnt look in shape but is
I'm buff and stuff but theres some extra baggage
hey if she goes out with me and jus uses me for my money of course ima break up with her(dump is such a hard word)
but i said shes like the nicest person you'll meet

:eek: That attitude will get you nowhere. Confidance? Nothing wrong with being used for your money if your happy with that. It sounds like you really like this girl. Another tidbit, ladies like a man that is in control, most "succesful" men are. The first thing to get control of is yourself. :cool:

That is what I love about this place. You can get advice from rc to romance.

Papa you sound like a man that has been around the block. Just remember though. It is hard to tell young people. No offense shadow. I sure wish I would have listened when I was younger. I could kick my self.

Live and learn. After I divorced, I hired a housekeeper. She comes when I tell her to, cleans, does the laundry, Gets my boy off the bus, cooks dinner... and the best part is after I pay her she goes home. Been around the block once decided not to go around that block again...:L: Its a new ballgame.

Definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over and expecting to get different results:rolleyes:

So... my son, he is 8, came home from school with a note from his teacher, TROUBLE, chasing a GIRl on the playground. Why? He "likes her", he says. I asked, "How is that working for you?" response "Well she ignores me!" I suggested he STOP, and go play ball with the boys. She now stands on the sidelines and CHEERS him on. I am freinds with her Dad, he tells me she now has a crush on him......
:Love:
Kids these days
:L:

I still on my way around the block. Been riding around for 5 years with papers and 12 before papers.

Just keep making those right turns.:cool:

That may have what happened to you papa. You followed the sign. :D I not going to say I won't get divorced. I don't see it happening soon. I try to make the right turns. You have to make the turns together for it to work. One turns left the other right. It don't work. If you know what I mean.

I know what you mean. Been there done that.

Man, it sounds like your falling for her before you even kick this shindig off. Man get in there and feel it out before you give up on everything else. It might work out, it might not. If it doesnt then you be at a lose in 2 spots, the girl and R/C.


Papa- I've looked at your "keep Right" avatar everytime I read a post you make and it never clicked that the arrow points left. Never paid atteention.

Signs are not always clear:cool:

i know I like her so much but she doesnt even know

know what ya mean

you know when you get the feelin that shes the right one
thats how I'm feelin right now
dunno if shes feelin like im feelin right now

Dad always said when things start getting exciting and your feeling all pumped up...like your gonna explode......slow down , take deep breaths .... savor the moment

Dude is homecoming the first "date" with this girl?

If so man, don't put to much pressure on your self keep your expectations realistic. If the the big dance is not to soon...have her meet you at Starbucks or something non-threatening like a cup of Coffee.... relaxed easy..... uhhh....your generation maybe the music store for a new CD....no pressure your not gonna plant the lips on her right away....;)


She would not have said yes for the dance if she didn't dig you already

SSSSLLLOOOOOWWWWWW:cool:

wise words papa

If you CAN walk away from RC you probably should.Most of us are in way too deep and no amount of therapy can save us.Get out while you can,it's already too late for some of us but for the love of God man,save yourself!


:L:

Just kidding,hope you stay with the rest of us RC junkies.

CRAP! look what you've done to Papa !!

suddenly he isn't speaking in terms of KV rates, voltages and controllers.. Thanks, now we need to recharge him with BL terms...


No, kidding.. i am having a 10 year long relationship with my girl Isabel, i really love her, not married, no sex till mariage (YEAH RIGHT!!) i had quite a few girls, lost count to be honoust. But I kept the best one, and happely for me, she choose me as well!.
Men needs to hunt and collect..

It's hard not to hold on too tight to a girl, especially the first one is hard to get over and to get it right, but trust me, time is the best teacher that you can get.

That, and the breathing advice from papa take you a long way.

What is the exact reason you're quiting RC, has it got something to do with hoe you want to be seen by her?

350, I would suggest not changing anything about yourself (that includes dropping your hobby) for a potential mate. In fact, dropping your hobby may be worse than keeping it. You see, when we go changing ourselves to look better for a potential mate we often find those changes not so palatable over time...and may make us bitter towards our decision to drop one thing or another for a relationship.

You are you and must continue to be yourself. The right mate will enjoy you for you...starting to sound repetitive but there's a preponderence of truth behind my advice.

This of course goes both ways, you'll have to enjoy her for her and hope that she's being herself and not fake.

Good luck.

Hey Shadow

Post a pict of the girl!
Maybe that will help us to give you the right advice :D

-- Dave

lol im not gonna post a pic of her
I am not changing for her
of course i have to stop my hobby for a while since its an expensive hobby
if she and I to go out of course i need some money

not to mention its a time consuming hobby.

350- how old are you both?

I was in the same boat. The first girl I took to Homecoming was a 10, I fell for her the first time I met her. Turned out she hated me at the time but did it to be nice. After the dance we turned out to be awesome friends and still are today.

In other words, not to be negative here, but if it doesnt work like you want it, good friends are always good to have.

And Slow down like Papa said. Girls can throw you for a loop, figure them out first by something simple like coffee or what not.

im 17 shes 16
im filipino/chinese shes viet/chinese

The worst mistake I made before I got married was to not let my wife know that I watch football all weekend. If she had known that before we got married, she wouldn't be pissed off every weekend for half the year! ;) I keep trying to tell her that there's worse things I could be doing.

(Truth be told, I compromised rather quickly. I dropped watching college ball, and I only watch a couple of the pro games now.)

Good luck with everything!

PS. Maronong ka po magsalita ng Tagalog, Cebuano, Ilonggo, Akleanon, or Karaya?

YAY! GO ASAIN PEOPLE!!!! lol, advice! dont show her ur rc stuff. She'll eitehr laugh at u! or get really interested, if she does, she'll turn to u for her RC NEEDS!! lol, triple expense, gir, ur rc, and her rc!! ps! taking a break is a good idea! so sell me all ur e-maxx bl systems!! i would sacrifice all my rc stuff in a second for a girl i like!

Some great advice here...
I have a quote for situations as these:
"No matter how good she looks, someone somewhere is tired of putting up with her sh!t!"

My advice would echo the others'. Don't give up RC completely for anyone but yourself. Putting it aside for the time being is one thing. Don't change yourself for anyone. As C.H.U.D mentioned, it will cause unforseen bitterness down the road.

well, u should keep some stuff, and not quit completley cuz rc is addicte, i think i tried to quit twice this during my whole year of RC, but if ur short on cash! i'll be waiting! PS, do you even have any e-maxx bl ssytems?

i have HV-Maxx
yes kulangflow marunong pa ako mag tagalog
i was born in the Philippines of course i won't forget my native language