Thanks Harkock. For the wishes and for the sarcasam. Honestly we have been at odds for years, but alot of it was just jealousy on her part. She wanted to get back together, but I was not interseted after many years of feline(figure of speach) torture. So she was pissed at me for turning her down, and tried everything to make my life rough just to make a point.
Still to err is human, to forgive is devine. I know it sounds corney to some, but I do believe that carma is real. Reap what you sow, what goes around comes around etc. etc. etc..... With all of that said no one deserves to go through the riggers of terminal cancer. She finally retreated near the end, and called a truce so to speak. She realized that she needed to fix all the damage that she created, and began to help recover my relatinship with the kids for their best interest. In turn I for gave her. I think she was kind of blaming me for her illness through the last 4 years. She had to take it out on someone I guess. I really do believe that if you lead a shameful disrespectful life that it will come back on you some way some how either here or in the next life
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