[JERRY2KONE]

Look you are obviously a very young man who has a lot of life to go through. I would ask her straight up how she feels about this guy and about you. You can gage your direction from that. He obviously has no respect for you as your friend, and hence he is not a true friend to you. What he is doing is totally disrespectful and he needs his lights knocked out. If she is important to you then you have to show her how you feel and be honset with her. One thing that took me many years to figure out is that we spend way too much time in the courtship dance trying to feel out situations for the sake of avoiding embarrassment or rejection, but the best way is to just avoid wasting time and communicate directly to the point. you may get shot down, but at least you will not waste any time getting there and you can move on quickly. If you are anything like most of us you will go through many young women along the path of life. We would all love to meet the woman of our dreams and have them at our side throughout life, but that is not the way real life goes. Good luck with that.