[lincpimp]

Hey BP, are you and the lady going out? Like going steady? Or are you just dating each other (in an open situation, so that you can date multiple people)?

If you are an "item" or whatever the term for going steady is these days then you should let her know that you find his actions as suspect that he wants to go out with her. Sometimes women can be blind to men's advances, and she may just see what he is doing as a form of friendship. Most likely he is trying to get some alone time with her to "woo" her. It sounds like it to me, unless he is gay.