Gee, the oblonged "O" (#65 on diagram 16 on page 15 of the manual) has to be installed between the forward part of the upper A arm and the shock tower(it will be sandwiched in there). Then you insert part #275 (3 x 47mm shaft) and keep them in place by a pair of 2.5mm E-clip.
On your third picture, that Oblong plastic was installed incorrectly.
I can see where you got confused. You were looking at diagram 15 on page 15 .
Looking from the front:
You can see the difference from this pic compared to yours:
You can see the plastic Oblong part between the shock tower and forward part of the upper A arm here:
You need more common sense
. Hope these helps.