In a 3-way switch you have 1 ground terminal and 3 "hot" terminals:
- The feed wire goes to the common terminal of one switch.
- The other two terminals turn on/off opposite from each other; meaning, when the toggle is in one position, one of the terminals is off and the other is on. When you flip the switch the other way, the off terminal is on and the other is off.
- At the other end, the two "hot" wires go into the two other switch terminals.
- The common terminal is hooked to the load.
Basically, it's just a SPDT switch. An easy way to tell if you have the right kind of switch is that a 3-way switch (SPDT) or a 4-way switch (DPST) will not have "on" or "off" markings. There is no "on" or "off" marking on the toggle because either position can be on depending on the switch position on the other end. BTW: 4-way switches are used in between two 3-way switches...
An alternate wiring method could have the power feed could be coming into the load side and the switches switch the neutral side. But the same arrangement applies.
As far as wiring goes. On either end, you'll have black (hot), white (neutral), and green/bare (ground) wires. In between the two switches, you typically have an extra red wire.
Here is a link that explains the wiring:
http://www.homeimprovementweb.com/in...way-switch.htm
Here is a more basic schematic which might be clearer:
The kitchen in my house had a 3-way setup and was totally messed up. One of the positions on one of the switches actually blew a breaker. The best way to figure out what is what is to remove the switches , open the light fixture, and identify the wires (be careful if doing this while power is hot).
You could simply have worn switches too. Over time, the arc that happens when you open/close the switches can eat away at the metal making no connection. Even if the switches "may" be good, I would replace them with new ones that way you are starting with known good components.