Don't even think about removing the tabs:
-the ends of the cells are aluminum, so you have to use special flux which is nasty
-since the ends are aluminum, they soak up a lot of heat which makes soldering more difficult
Using the tabs is perfectly fine, I've got 5 packs (40 cells total) soldered together using them.
SH Z-Car, Custom Crawler, 8s Savage, 12s XTM XLB 1/7 buggy, 4wd 4-link rear/IFS Pro4 truck, Custom Hyper 10 Short Course, Belt-Drive Mammoth ST 1/8 truggy, 4s 17.5 MM Pro HPI Blitz
I'm going to make two 3S1P packs but they will be wired in parallel. I'm not making one single 3S2P pack because I have ordered a FMA 10S charger and it'll be able to charge both of my packs at once at around 8Amps
Stock tabs are fine - they were tested in this thread on RC Groups. See #18 for discussion on tabs - he calculates a tab resistance but his testing is for his planes current draw, 35amps.
This thread is also a great reference on building and using a123s. It encompasses about everything there is to know about rc useage of a123s, either directly or with links to other material.