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rabosi · 08.20.2009, 10:33 AM

I agree, but I do believe that there is a very small percentage of kids who are born with things not "wired" properly. Jeffery Darmer perhaps as an example.

_paralyzed_ · 08.20.2009, 01:02 PM

Thanks for all the kind words guys. I wish I had more of a part in raising him, he lives with his mom and she did an awesome job. I get all the gravy, but I absolutely support and follow everything she did to get him this far.

I didn't have Caleb anymore, so I needed to lean on some friends. Thanks for being here and the support everybody. Viva la RCM familia!

jayjay283 · 08.22.2009, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by rabosi

I agree, but I do believe that there is a very small percentage of kids who are born with things not "wired" properly. Jeffery Darmer perhaps as an example.

I agree, it still goes back to the parents though, if you yell at a kid in (worse case scenario) a drunken rage he/she will walk around in a trance, bubble like state for days trying to rationalize it. Same with animals, you beat a dog (normal nice house dog not pitbull type dog) it wont ever trust you again. Kids need unconditional love and support and gentle guidance. Not saying an azzwhooping isn't necessary when they go over the line but as soon as you azzwhoop you forgive and hug them.. ?ya think

JERRY2KONE · **What to do??? -** 08.22.2009, 08:54 PM

Azzwhooopins are out. Look if you treat your kid with respect from the start and maintain a good relationship with them, there will be no reason for them to get out of control. Stay close with them and keep a good eye on everything they do, and they will not go over that line. I will not hit my kids, and I rarely raise my voice at them, but they know when I mean business because I spend a lot of time with them. Yes you are correct about recovering after you get angry though. If you get upset and scoled your kid you have to go back and explain what made you angry and help them understand why they cannot do the same thing again. Love is the biggest key. You have to let them know that you love them every step of the way so there is no confusion in their minds ever.