Random question about friends and girls.

[JERRY2KONE]

Since he is so irritationg and doesn't seem to get hints you could have some fun with him. Just walk up and quietly share with him that when you and your girl are together and he calls that you two get a good laugh out of it. He obviously does not think or care about your feelings, so why in the world should you care about his. Like the pimp said you have to put the brakes on him right away and let this nutbag know where he stands in the relationship. Either this guy is out of touch with reality or he is truly not your friend. You and your girl need to get this situation under control immediately before this fruitloop looses his mind and blows a gasket. Maybe he just does not get that you two are an item. The two of yu need to make that obvious for him to see.

[What's_nitro?]

Yeah, you both need to walk up to him together and say "HI (insert name here)!" and then just make-out like crazy! Right in front of him! If that doesn't get the point across nothing will!

[lincpimp]

Originally Posted by What's_nitro?

Yeah, you both need to walk up to him together and say "HI (insert name here)!" and then just make-out like crazy! Right in front of him! If that doesn't get the point across nothing will!

I like this idea, maybe I should give it a try to the wife? With one of her friends! That may be taking it a bit too far?!

[What's_nitro?]

Having marital issues, lincpimp?

[lincpimp]

Originally Posted by What's_nitro?

Having marital issues, lincpimp?

No, but I will if I make out with another girl in front of the wife!

[What's_nitro?]

Haha! Unless your wife was part of the 0.001% of women who wouldn't care...

[JERRY2KONE]

Come on man think about it. If linc's wife were to make out in front of him what do you think that he would do? Knowing that do you think his wife would let him off the hook? Not a chance. She would cut his jewels off and hand them to him. I do like that idea though to get the point accross to this moron. Just set up the moment when you know he will be in the room and just start making out in front of him. If that does not get the point into his thick head, then nothing will. If he is really brave or just plain stupid he may try to join in on the event. Either way please do share the results of that one with us here at RCM.

[TexasSP]

I think it's time for a nice heart to heart talk with him, in person, in private. I would let him know in no uncertain terms what he is doing is unappreciated and unwanted, this is the way things are and he needs to deal with it and move on. Let him know that if pushed further you will have to change your approach to the situation. Leave it at that and let him imagine what your further actions will be. Never bring up fighting or anything else and don't let him get you riled up. Say it with confidence and force but do not yell. A lot of times being calm and collected yet firm and forceful can really put the message across better than anything else and leaving a little unknown in there (ie: your further actions) adds to the intimidation factor.

This is something I have learned in management that is quite effective. You often have to deal with all types and many of these will be tough. Always play your cards tight against your chest as not to show your hand and always leave your options open. Try never to make specific threats in other words.

If it gets past a certain point, you may have to "slap the guy down" so to speak. I am not suggesting using physical violence but you will need to find a course of escalation that really pushes the point across. What that course is is entirely up to you and what you feel is best situated to address the problem.

[Sower]

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