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JERRY2KONE · **Dejavu -** 03.12.2010, 07:48 AM

For some reason this all sounds like DEJAVU. Did you post this up before?

Anyway regardless of how much begger you are if this freak is 2 cans short of a six pack you won't be much of a match for a 9mm to the face. DOn't approach this kid yourself. Until he crosses the line in some way just let him be. Your GF needs to just ignor his communications all together and make sure that the atmospher does not lead him on in any way. Then if he keeps going speak with the police and let them handle it. With the way things are today people just go off the deep end for no reason at all and this could end very badly for you, your GF, or anyone that gets in his way. Best thing to do is seperate yourself and your GF from this guy.

pinkpanda3310 · 03.12.2010, 08:34 AM

It sounds to me like your asking us because he is borderline of going too far for your comfort. The guy is obviously not stable so the more distance the better IMO. It doesn't sound like he will stop anytime soon, matter of fact sounds like he's on a downhill slide. If it was me I would tell him on no uncertain terms and maybe even change GF's number. Of course, by doing so you are going to stir his emotions but I would think the sooner you get GF off his list the better. He is not your friend so you are not going to help him through anything.

My method is not sound advice but distancing yourself some how is the best IMO.

JThiessen · 03.12.2010, 10:39 AM

Leave it alone. Your GF is doing a fine job of handling it, and unless you consider yourself a friend of his, you have no business with those other gals - they will handle their end of it.
My daughter had a similar experience with some guy randomly texting her. Her boyfriend flipped out, just one of his many episodes of jealosy. And that's why he's no longer dating that 6'1" model.....