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Originally Posted by i should never have posted this, but it's too late now
i've had a gun in my mouth and one in between my testicles while being robbed. i can honestly say that if i were the best shot in the world, locked, loaded and with the safety off i would have only been a statistic and a cause for remorse for family members. the third guy holding and standing back would have made sure of that if the other two failed.
i've muscled 5 intruders out of my home single handedly. 2 of them were packing. i didn't need a firearm for that and having one would have put me at a disadvantage because i would have felt the need to access it.
i've had a pistol pulled on me in a busy city street and knocked the guy clear out of his boots.
my son is well trained at 7 yrs old and can pick off a jittery squirrel with a BB gun at over 10 yards with pretty good accuracy. i too was raised with locked and loaded pistols in the house and therefore am very strict about what is what and how to act. there's no question about my place over my children... just about their curiosity and the fact that one incident with a firearm is final, plain and simple.
i was trained with a 22 long rifle at age six and have an entire family full of military and ex military from green beret to red beret to recon to WWII to vietnam to iraq/afghanistan vets. weapons safety and tactics is almost a weekly event. there's only one person in my family who's ever fired a weapon whom cannot score expert on at least a couple weapons. it's not me...
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i am an advocate for gun safety and home protection. however, there's a way to go about it and a way not to. having a firearm readily available and accessible for use in a home with children is absolutely not the way to go about it no matter how well you think you've trained your children. there's no way around the fact that having a firearm in the home readily accessible and ready for action only increases the chances that a firearm will be used in the home... and possibly by children... who no matter what you do are curious.
there's also no way you can deny that if you have a kitchen, you have sharp knifes the children have unfettered access to. the argument about a sharp knife is useless if you've ever actually prepared a home cooked meal for your children.
now, i see no reason not to have a firearm ready in the home as a
secondary or
third tier form of home defense. i do, however see absolutely nothing logical or intelligent about having it readily accessible and fire-able at a moments notice with the exception that it's put away correctly. if it's locked in a proper safe, you're simply not getting to it in a timely manner. no other way around it. this introduces the necessity for a primary means of protection. thinking a bat is sufficient is laughable as far as i'm concerned, but the right knife could certainly bridge that gap between "there's a perp downstairs" and "there's a perp in the room".
as far as i'm concerned, given the nature of the beast and the curiosity of a child at any age what-so-ever, anyone who thinks they can train the curiosity out of their children to the point any child isn't eventually going to handle their readily accessible firearm when they're not aware is completely delusional. my grand daddy grew up in a home with access and lived through it... but he certainly has stories of when he played. same thing with my pop and my uncle. same with mom. same with my brother and i. we all knew not to fire them, but something could have happened at any time. heck... it took my brother 22 years before he decided to do what he did. nobody, and i mean absolutely nobody would have even entertained the thought that what he did was even remotely possible at that point... but it happened... and now he's gone because of it.
so... yeah... brian... i completely understand your stance and actually agree that honest citizens should be armed or the criminals have the upper hand. but i think in a home with children of any age (8 - 80) should have not only the children trained and knowledgeable, but have tiers to it's defense strategy. it should start with either a good alarm system or slightly lethal and readily accessible in the event lethal is the purpose and move up to a fire safe that's nearly un-crackable that harbors anything you choose short of nuclear war heads. just don't go picking up something you need a push rod and black powder for.
i know what you do is your choice and this is simply my opinion, but by all means... think sincerely of the children first... and your right and/or possible need to bare arms second.